Carly Rae Jepsen is not a celebrity. Unlike other pop stars of her calibre and there are few she gets to go outside. She can blend into the mass of New York City, or hike up the mountains near her home in Los Angeles, and barely prompt a second glance. Passersby dont realise theyre brushing shoulders with one of the best pop songwriters of this century. If I am recognised, she says, its somebody being like, Hey, I love your album! and Im like, Oh, youre a friendly person! Thank you! I can go live my life. Thats happiness to me.
This is by design. At least, as much as anything can be in this industry. For a time in 2012, during what the 34-year-old refers to as the Call Me Maybe era of my life, she had a glimpse into what it was like to be a bona fide Famous Person. The cutesy, carefully crafted synth-pop song was everywhere. Number one in every country you can think of, it was the biggest-selling single in the world that year. The attention on Jepsen was immediate and intense. 
I didnt love it as much as I thought I would have, she says. I found it to be a really jarring experience. For one thing, she had a concept in her head of what it meant to be a popstar, and I was really confused about how I would fit into that, because it was so unlike me. How so? Well, I cant dance, she says with a laugh. And I think Im a little bit private 
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Cross-legged on a sofa in her labels London offices, dressed in a green suit dotted with pink eyes, Jepsen has been up since 1am. Shes still a bundle of energy fast-spoken, giggly and hopped up on the same adrenaline that courses through her music but that private person is there behind the pep. Shes direct when she wants to be, but if she doesnt want to answer a question, rather than refuse outright, shell dance around it until the original subject is a distant memory. 
Instead of riding the Call Me Maybe wave until it crashed somewhere out of her control, Jepsen made a conscious decision to step back. Even I was sick of hearing myself on the radio, she says. I needed some time to reflect about my next move, because I was hungry for something but I hadnt figured out what. And then with Emotion, I started to gain my footing. 
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1/40 Nirvana “All Apologies”
I wish I was like you / Easily amused / Find my nest of salt / Everything’s my fault.
As headbangers with bleeding poets hearts, Nirvana were singular. Yet their slower songs have become unjustly obscured as the decades have rolled by. Has Kurt Cobain even more movingly articulated his angst and his anger than on the best song from their swan-song album, 1993s In Utero?
All Apologies a mea culpa howled from the precipice was directed to his wife, Courtney Love, and their baby daughter, Frances Bean. Six months later, Cobain would take his own life. No other composition more movingly articulates the despair that was set to devour him whole and the chest bursting love he felt for his family. Its circumstances are tragic yet its message that loves lingers after we have gone is uplifting. EP
2/40 Nine Inch Nails “Hurt”
And you could have it all / My empire of dirt / I will let you down / I will make you hurt.
Trent Reznors lacerating diagnosis of his addiction to self-destruction he has never confirmed whether or not the song refers to heroin use would have an unlikely rebirth via Johnny Cashs 2002 cover. But all of that ache, torrid lyricism and terrible beauty is already present and correct in Reznors original. EP
3/40 Joy Division Love Will Tear Us Apart
Why is the bedroom so cold turned away on your side? / Is my timing that flawed, our respect run so dry?
Basking in its semi-official status as student disco anthem Joy Divisions biggest hit has arguably suffered from over-familiarity. Yet approached with fresh ears the aching humanity of Ian Curtiss words glimmer darkly. His marriage was falling apart when he wrote the lyrics and he would take his own life shortly afterwards. But far from a ghoulish dispatch from the brink Love Will Tear Us Apart unfurls like a jangling guitar sonnet sad and searing. EP
4/40 Arcade Fire “Sprawl II (Mountains Beyond Mountains)”
They heard me singing and they told me to stop / Quit these pretentious things and just punch the clock.
Locating the dreamy underside of suburban ennui was perhaps the crowning achievement of Arcade Fire and their finest album, The Suburbs. Many artists have tried to speak to the asphyxiating conformity of life amid the manicured lawns and two-cars-in-the-drive purgatory of life in the sticks.
But Arcade Fire articulated the frustrations and sense of something better just over the horizon that will be instantly familiar to anyone who grew up far away from the bright lights, Sprawl IIs keening synths gorgeous counterpointed by Régine Chassagne who sings like Bjork if Bjork stocked shelves in a supermarket while studying for her degree by night. EP
5/40 Beyonce “Formation”
“I like my baby hair, with baby hair and afros / I like my negro nose with Jackson Five nostrils / Earned all this money but they’ll never take the country out me / I got hot sauce in my bag, swag.”
Beyonce had made politically charged statements before this, but Formation felt like her most explicit. The lyrics reclaim the power in her identity as a black woman from the deep south and have her bragging about her wealth and refusing to forget her roots. In a society that still judges women for boasting about their success, Beyonce owns it, and makes a point of asserting her power, including over men. You might just be a black Bill Gates in the making, she muses, but then decides, actually: I might just be a black Bill Gates in the making. RO
6/40 Laura Marling Ghosts
Lover, please do not / Fall to your knees / Its not Like I believe in / Everlasting love.
Haunted folkie Marling was 16 when she wrote her break-out ballad a divination of teenage heartache with a streak of flinty maturity that punches the listener in the gut. Its one of the most coruscating anti-love songs of recent history and a reminder that, Mumford and Sons notwithstanding the mid 2000s nu-folk scene wasnt quite the hellish fandango posterity has deemed it. EP
7/40 LCD Soundsystem “Losing My Edge”
Im losing my edge / To all the kids in Tokyo and Berlin / I’m losing my edge to the art-school Brooklynites in little jackets and borrowed nostalgia for the unremembered Eighties.
One of the best songs ever written about ageing and being forced to make peace with the person you are becoming. Long before the concept of the hipster had gone mainstream, the 30-something James Murphy was lamenting the cool kids with their beards and their trucker hats snapping at his heels.
Coming out of his experiences as a too-cool-for school DJ in New York, the song functions perfectly well as a satire of Nathan Barley-type trendies. But, as Murphy desperately reels off all his cutting-edge influences, its the seam of genuine pain running through the lyrics that give it its universality. EP
8/40 Leonard Cohen “So Long, Marianne”
Well you know that I love to live with you/ but you make me forget so very much / I forget to pray for the angels / and then the angels forget to pray for us.
You could fill an entire ledger with unforgettable Cohen lyrics couplets that cut you in half like a samurai blade so that you dont even notice whats happened until you suddenly slide into pieces.
So Long, Marianne was devoted to his lover, Marianne Jensen, whom he met on the Greek Island of Hydra in 1960. As the lyrics attest, they ultimately passed like ships in a long, sad night.
She died three months before Cohen, in July 2016. Shortly beforehand he wrote to her his final farewell a coda to the ballad that had come to define her in the wider world. Know that I am so close behind you that if you stretch out your hand, I think you can reach mine… Goodbye old friend. Endless love, see you down the road. EP
9/40 The Libertines “Can’t Stand Me Now”
“An end fitting for the start / you twist and tore our love apart.”
The great pop bromance of our times came crashing down shortly after Carl Barât and Pete Doherty slung their arms around each others shoulders and delivered this incredible platonic love song. Has a break-up dirge ever stung so bitterly as when the Libertines duo counted the ways in which each had betrayed the other?
Shortly afterwards, Dohertys spiralling chemical habit would see him booted out of the group and he would become a national mascot for druggy excess a sort of Danny Dyer with track-marks along his arm. But he and Barât and the rest of us would always have Cant Stand Me Now, a laundry list of petty betrayals that gets you right in the chest. EP
10/40 Kate Bush “Cloudbusting”
“You’re like my yo-yo/ That glowed in the dark/ What made it special/ Made it dangerous/ So I bury it/ And forget.”
Few artists use surrealism as successfully as Kate Bush or draw inspiration from such unusual places. So you have Cloudbusting, about the relationship between psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich and his son, Peter, the latter of whom Bush inhabits with disarming tenderness. The way Peters father is compared to such a vivid childhood memory is a perfect, haunting testimony to the ways we are affected by loss as adults. RO
11/40 Nick Cave “Into my Arms”
I don’t believe in an interventionist God / But I know, darling, that you do / But if I did I would kneel down and ask Him / Not to intervene when it came to you.”
True, the lyrics spew and coo and, written down, resemble something Robbie Williams might croon on his way back from the tattoo parlour (And I don’t believe in the existence of angels /But looking at you I wonder if that’s true).
Yet they are delivered with a straight-from-the-pulpit ferocity from Cave as he lays out his feelings for a significant other (opinions are divided whether it is directed to the mother of his eldest son Luke, Viviane Carneiro, or to PJ Harvey, with whom he was briefly involved). Hes gushing all right, but like lava from a volcano, about to burn all before it. EP
12/40 Sisters of Mercy “This Corrosion”
On days like this/ In times like these/I feel an animal deep inside/ Heel to haunch on bended knees.
Andrew Eldritch is the great forgotten lyricist of his generation. Dominion/Mother Russia was a rumination on the apocalypse and also a critique of efforts to meaningfully engage with the Soviet Union at the height of the Cold War.
Ever better, and from the same Floodlands album was This Corrosion a track more epic than watching all three Lord the Rings movies from the top of Mount Everest. Amid the choirs and the primordial guitars, what gives the nine-minute belter its real power are the lyrics which may (or may not) allude to the not-at-all amicable departure from the Sisters of Wayne Hussey and Craig Adams.
Either way, Eldritch paints forceful pictures in the listeners head, especially during the stream of consciousness outro, unspooling like an excerpt from HP Lovecrafts The Necronomicon or the Book of Revelations: The Musical. EP
13/40 Sultans of Ping FC “Where’s Me Jumper?”
It’s alright to say things can only get better/ You haven’t lost your brand new sweater/ Pure new wool, and perfect stitches/ Not the type of jumper that makes you itches.
Received as a novelty ditty on its debut in pauses to feel old January 1992, the Sultans lament for a missing item of woollen-wear has, with time, been revealed as something deeper. Its obviously playful and parodying of angst-filled indie lyrics (of which there was no shortage in the shoe-gazy early Nineties). But theres a howl of pain woven deep into the songs fabric, so that the larking is underpinned with a lingering unease. EP
14/40 The Smiths “There is a Light that Never Goes Out”
Take me out tonight/Take me anywhere, I don’t care/I don’t care, I don’t care.
As with Leonard Cohen, you could spend the rest of your days debating the greatest Morrissey lyrics. But surely there has never been a more perfect collection of couplets than that contained in their 1982 opus. Its hysterically witty, with the narrator painting death by ten-ton truck as the last word in romantic demises. But the trademark Moz sardonic wit is elsewhere eclipsed by a blinding light of spiritual torment, resulting in a song that functions both as cosmic joke and howl into the abyss. EP
15/40 Bruce Springsteen “I’m on Fire”
At night I wake up with the sheets soaking wet/ And a freight train running through the/ Middle of my head /Only you can cool my desire.
Written down, Springsteen lyrics can stops to ensure reinforced steel helmet is strapped on read like a fever-dream Bud Light commercial. Its the delivery, husky, hokey, all-believing that brings them to life.
And he has never written more perfectly couched verse than this tone-poem about forbidden desire from 1984s Born in the USA. Springsteen was at that time engaged to actress/model Julianne Phillips though he had already experienced a connection to his future wife Patti Scialfa, recently joined the E-Street Band as a backing singer. Thus the portents of the song do not require deep scrutiny, as lust and yearning are blended into one of the most combustible cocktails in mainstream rock. EP
16/40 Tori Amos “Father Lucifer”
He says he reckons I’m a watercolour stain/ He says I run and then I run from him and then I run/ He didn’t see me watching from the aeroplane/ He wiped a tear and then he threw away our apple seed.
The daughter of a strict baptist preacher, Amos constantly wrote about her daddy issues. Father Lucifer was further inspired by visions she had received whilst taking peyote with a South American shaman.
The result was a feverish delving into familial angst, framed by a prism of nightmarish hallucination. Its about love, death, God and the dark things in our life we darent confront the rush of words delivered with riveting understatement. EP
17/40 Public Enemy “Black Steel in the Hour of Chaos”
I got a letter from the government/ The other day/I opened and read it/It said they were suckers/ They wanted me for their army or whatever/ Picture me given’ a damn, I said never.
Decades before Black Lives Matter, Chuck D and Public Enemy were articulating the under siege reality of daily existence for millions of African-Americans. Black Steel, later covered by trip-hopper Tricky, is a pummelling refusal to be co-opted into Americans Land of the Free mythology a message arguably as pertinent today as when it kicked down the doors 30 years ago. EP
18/40 Kendrick Lamar ” Swimming Pool (Drank)”
First you get a swimming pool full of liquor, then you dive in it/ Pool full of liquor, then you dive in it/ I wave a few bottles, then I watch ’em all flock.
Lamar is widely acknowledged as one of contemporary hip-hops greatest lyricists. He was never more searing than on this early confessional a rumination on his poverty-wracked childhood and the addictions that ripped like wildfire through his extended family in Compton and Chicago. There is also an early warning about the destructive temptations of fame as the young Kendrick is invited to join hip hops tradition of riotous excess and lose himself in an acid bath of liquor and oblivion. EP
19/40 Prince “Sign O’ the Times”
A skinny man died of a big disease with a little name/ By chance his girlfriend came across a needle and soon she did the same.
Princes lyrics had always felt like an extension of his dreamily pervy persona and, even as the African-American community bore the brunt of Reagan-era reactionary politics, Prince was living in his own world. He crashed back to earth with his 1987 masterpiece and its title track, a stunning meditation on gang violence, Aids, political instability and natural disaster. EP
20/40 Rolling Stones “Gimme Shelter”
“War, children, it’s just a shot away/ It’s just a shot away.”
Nobody captured the violent tumult of the end of the Sixties better than Mick, Keith and co. Their one masterpiece to rule them all was, of course, Gimme Shelter. Today, the credit for its uncanny power largely goes to Merry Claytons gale-force backing vocals.
But the Satanic majesty also flows from the lyrics which spoke to the pandemonium of the era and the sense that civilisation could come crashing in at any moment. EP
21/40 David Bowie “Station to Station”
Once there were mountains on mountains/ And once there were sun birds to soar with/ And once I could never be down/Got to keep searching and searching.
Which Bowie lyrics to single out? The gordian mystery of Bewlay Brothers? The meta horror movie of Ashes to Ashes? The uncanny last will and testament that was the entirety of Blackstar a ticking clock of a record that shape-shifted into something else entirely when Bowie passed away three days after its release?
You could stay up all night arguing so lets just pick on one of the greats the trans-Continental odyssey comprising the title track to Station to Station. Recorded, goes the myth, in the darkest days of Bowies LA drug phase, the track is a magisterial eulogy for the Europe he had abandoned and which he would soon return to for his Berlin period.
All of that and Bowie makes the line its not the side effects of the cocaine feel like a proclamation of ancient wisdom. EP
22/40 Oasis “Supersonic”
She done it with a doctor on a helicopter/ She’s sniffin in her tissue/ Sellin’ the Big Issue.
There is shameless revisionism and then there is claiming that Noel Gallagher is a great lyricist. And yet, its the sheer, triumphant dunder-headedness of Oasis biggest hits that makes them so enjoyable.
Rhyming Elsa with Alka Seltzer, as Noel does on this Morning Glory smash, is a gesture of towering vapidity but theres a genius in its lack of sophistication. Blur waxing clever, winking at Martin Amis etc, could never hold a candle to Oasis being gleefully boneheaded. EP
23/40 Underworld “Born Slippy”
You had chemicals boy/ I’ve grown so close to you/ Boy and you just groan boy.
The ironic lager, lager, lager chant somehow became one the most bittersweet moments in Nineties pop. Underworld never wanted to be stars and actively campaigned against the release of their contribution to the Trainspotting score as a single. Yet there is no denying the glorious ache of this bittersweet groover or the punch of Karl Hydes sad raver stream-of-consciousness wordplay. Its that rare dance track which reveals hidden depths when you sit down with the lyrics. EP
24/40 Fleetwood Mac “Landslide”
“And I saw my reflection in the snow-covered hills/ Till the landslide brought me down”
Stevie Nicks was only 27 when she wrote one of the most poignant and astute meditations on how people change with time, and the fear of having to give up everything youve worked for. RO
25/40 Paul Simon “Graceland”
She comes back to tell me she’s gone/ As if I didn’t know that/ As if I didn’t know my own bed.
With contributions from Ladysmith Black Mambazo and the Boyoyo Boys, Simons 1986 masterpiece album is regarded nowadays as a landmark interweaving of world music and pop. But it was also a break-up record mourning the end of his marriage of 11 months to Carrie Fisher. The pain of the separation is laid out nakedly on the title track, where he unflinchingly chronicles the dissolution of the relationship. EP
26/40 Lou Reed “Walk on the Wild Side”
“Candy came from out on the island/ In the backroom she was everybody’s darling/ But she never lost her head/ Even when she was giving head/ She says, hey baby, take a walk on the wild side.”
Reeds most famous song paid tribute to all the colourful characters he knew in New York City. Released three years after the Stonewall Riots, Walk on the Wild Side embraced and celebrated the other in simple, affectionate terms. The Seventies represented a huge shift in visibility for LGBT+ people, and with this track, Reed asserted himself as a proud ally. RO
27/40 Sharon Van Etten “Every Time the Sun Comes Up”
People say I’m a one-hit wonder/ But what happens when I have two?/ I washed your dishes, but I shit in your bathroom.
The breakdown of a 10 year relationship informed some of the hardest hitting songs on the New Jersey songwriters fourth album. Are We There. She takes no prisoner on the closing track a tale of domesticity rent asunder that lands its punches precisely because of Van Ettens eye for a mundane, even grubby, detail. EP
28/40 Patti Smith Gloria
Jesus died for somebody’s sins but not mine/ Meltin in a pot of thieves/ Wild card up my sleeve/ Thick heart of stone/ My sins my own/ They belong to me
The song that launched a thousand punk bands. It takes three minutes to get to Van Morrisons chorus on Patti Smiths overhaul of Gloria, where she lusts after a girl she spots through the window at a party. Before that, there is poetry. She snarls and shrieks as though her vocal chords might rip. The ostentatiousness of the lyrics owes as much to poets Arthur Rimbaud and Baudelaire as it does to Jim Morrison. RO
29/40 The Eagles “Hotel California”
There she stood in the doorway/ I heard the mission bell/ And I was thinking to myself/ This could be Heaven or this could be Hell.
A cry of existential despair from the great soft-rock goliath of the Seventies. By the tail-end of the decade the Eagles were thoroughly fed up of one another and jaundiced by fame. The titular and fictional Hotel California is a metaphor for life in a successful rock band: You can check-out any time you like / But you can never leave. The hallucinatory imagery was meanwhile inspired by a late night drive through LA, the streets empty, an eerie hush holding sway. EP
30/40 Thin Lizzy “The Boys are Back in Town”
Guess who just got back today/ Them wild-eyed boys that had been away/ Haven’t changed that much to say/But man, I still think them cats are crazy.
A strut of swaggering confidence captured in musical form and a celebration of going back to your roots and reconnecting with the people who matter. Thin Lizzys biggest hit was in part inspired by Phil Lynotts childhood memories of a Manchester criminal gang. The gang members were constantly in and out of prison and the song imagines one of their reunions even name-checking their favourite hangout of Dinos Bar and Grill where the drink will flow and the blood will spill. EP
31/40 Nina Simone “Four Women”
“Ill kill the first mother I see/ My life has been too rough/ Im awfully bitter these days/ Because my parents were slaves.”
Included on her 1966 album Wild is the Wind, Simone depicts four characters Aunt Sarah, Saffronia, Sweet Thing and Peaches who represent different parts of the lasting legacy of slavery. Some critics accused her of racial stereotyping, but for Simone, it was these womens freedom to define themselves that gave them their power. RO
32/40 St Vincent “Digital Witness”
Digital witnesses/ whats the point of even sleeping?/ If I cant show it, if you cant see me/ Whats the point of doing anything?
One of the best songs written about the illusory intimacy fostered the internet. St Vincent aka Texas songwriter Annie Clark was singing about how social media fed our narcissism and gave us a fake sense of our place in the world. EP
33/40 Frank Ocean “Pink + White”
“Up for air from the swimming pool/ You kneel down to the dry land/ Kiss the Earth that birthed you Gave you tools just to stay alive/ And make it up when the sun is ruined.”
Co-written with Pharrell and Tyler, the Creator, Pink + White stands out even on an album like Frank Oceans Blonde. He sings with a gently swaying, almost resigned delivery surrealist lyrics that likens a past relationship to a brief high, from the perspective of the comedown that follows. RO
34/40 Rufus Wainwright “Dinner at Eight”
If I want to see the tears in your eyes/ Then I know it had to be/ Long ago, actually in the drifting white snow/You loved me.
Piano-man Wainwright can be too ornate for his own good. But how he lands his blows here in this soul-baring recounting of a violent disagreement with his father. Loudon III, a cult folkie in his own right walked out on the family when Rufus was a child and the simmering resentments had lingered on.
They boiled over at a joint Rolling Stone photoshoot during which Rufus had joked that his dad needed him to get into Rolling Stone and his father had not taken the insult lying down. The dispute is here restaged by Wainwright the younger as a raging row at the dinner table. EP
35/40 Bob Dylan “It’s Alright, Ma (I’m Only Bleeding)”
“Pointed threats, they bluff with scorn/ Suicide remarks are torn/ From the fool’s gold mouthpiece/ The hollow horn plays wasted words/ Proves to warn that he not busy being born/ Is busy dying.”
Its Alright Ma is a cornerstone in Dylans career that marks his shift from scrutinising politics to sardonically exposing all the hypocrisy in Western culture. He references the Book of Ecclesiastes but also Elvis Presley, and offers up the grim perspective of a man whose views do not fit in with the world around him. RO
36/40 ABBA “The Winner Takes it All”
I don’t wanna talk/ About the things we’ve gone through/ Though it’s hurting me/ Now it’s history.
The first and last word in break-up ballads. The consensus is that it was written by Björn Ulvaeus about his divorce from band-mate Agnetha Fältskog, though he has always denied this, saying is the experience of a divorce, but it’s fiction. Whether or not he protests too much the impact is searing as Fältskog wrenchingly chronicles a separation from the perspective of the other party. EP
37/40 Nas “The World is Yours”
“I’m the mild, money-getting style, rolling foul/ The versatile, honey-sticking wild golden child/ Dwelling in the Rotten Apple, you get tackled/ Or caught by the devil’s lasso, s*** is a hassle”
Nas addresses both himself and his future progeny on one of the best tracks from his faultless debut Illmatic. Inspired by the scene from Scarface in which Tony Montana sees a blimp with the message The World is Yours during a visit to the movie theatre, it feeds back to the rappers own belief that certain signs will appear to convince you that youre on the right track. RO
38/40 The Stone Roses “I Wanna Be Adored”
I dont have to sell my soul/ Hes already in me/ I dont need to sell my soul/ Hes already in me.
A statement of intent, a zen riddle, a perfect accompaniment to one of the greatest riffs in indie-dom – the opening track of the Stone Rosess 1989 debut album was all of this and much more.
The lyrics are supremely economical just the chorus repeated over and over, really. But these are nonetheless amongst the most hypnotic lines in pop. Adding poignancy is the rumour that the Roses wrote it as an apology to early fans reportedly aghast that the group had signed a big fat record deal. EP
39/40 The Beatles “When I’m Sixty Four”
“When I get older losing my hair/ Many years from now/ Will you still be sending me a Valentine/ Birthday greetings bottle of wine?”
There are hundreds of great songs about epic, romantic love, and there are hundreds of other Beatles songs that could have made this list. But this track from Sgt. Peppers Lonely Hearts Club Band written by a 16-year-old Paul McCartney is one of the greats for how it encapsulates a kind of love that is less appreciated in musical form. Its less Id take a bullet for you and more put the kettle on, love. Its adorable, full of whimsy, and just the right amount of silly. RO
40/40 Beck “Loser”
In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey / Butane in my veins so I’m out to cut the junkie.
Man Im the worst rapper in the world Im a loser, Beck is reported to have said upon listening back to an early demo of his break-out hit (before it had acquired its iconic chorus) . This gave him an idea for the hook and he never looked back. The stream of consciousness lyrics cast a spell even though they dont make much sense ironic as Beck was setting out the emulate the hyper-literate Chuck D. EP
1/40 Nirvana “All Apologies”
I wish I was like you / Easily amused / Find my nest of salt / Everything’s my fault.
As headbangers with bleeding poets hearts, Nirvana were singular. Yet their slower songs have become unjustly obscured as the decades have rolled by. Has Kurt Cobain even more movingly articulated his angst and his anger than on the best song from their swan-song album, 1993s In Utero?
All Apologies a mea culpa howled from the precipice was directed to his wife, Courtney Love, and their baby daughter, Frances Bean. Six months later, Cobain would take his own life. No other composition more movingly articulates the despair that was set to devour him whole and the chest bursting love he felt for his family. Its circumstances are tragic yet its message that loves lingers after we have gone is uplifting. EP
2/40 Nine Inch Nails “Hurt”
And you could have it all / My empire of dirt / I will let you down / I will make you hurt.
Trent Reznors lacerating diagnosis of his addiction to self-destruction he has never confirmed whether or not the song refers to heroin use would have an unlikely rebirth via Johnny Cashs 2002 cover. But all of that ache, torrid lyricism and terrible beauty is already present and correct in Reznors original. EP
3/40 Joy Division Love Will Tear Us Apart
Why is the bedroom so cold turned away on your side? / Is my timing that flawed, our respect run so dry?
Basking in its semi-official status as student disco anthem Joy Divisions biggest hit has arguably suffered from over-familiarity. Yet approached with fresh ears the aching humanity of Ian Curtiss words glimmer darkly. His marriage was falling apart when he wrote the lyrics and he would take his own life shortly afterwards. But far from a ghoulish dispatch from the brink Love Will Tear Us Apart unfurls like a jangling guitar sonnet sad and searing. EP
4/40 Arcade Fire “Sprawl II (Mountains Beyond Mountains)”
They heard me singing and they told me to stop / Quit these pretentious things and just punch the clock.
Locating the dreamy underside of suburban ennui was perhaps the crowning achievement of Arcade Fire and their finest album, The Suburbs. Many artists have tried to speak to the asphyxiating conformity of life amid the manicured lawns and two-cars-in-the-drive purgatory of life in the sticks.
But Arcade Fire articulated the frustrations and sense of something better just over the horizon that will be instantly familiar to anyone who grew up far away from the bright lights, Sprawl IIs keening synths gorgeous counterpointed by Régine Chassagne who sings like Bjork if Bjork stocked shelves in a supermarket while studying for her degree by night. EP
5/40 Beyonce “Formation”
“I like my baby hair, with baby hair and afros / I like my negro nose with Jackson Five nostrils / Earned all this money but they’ll never take the country out me / I got hot sauce in my bag, swag.”
Beyonce had made politically charged statements before this, but Formation felt like her most explicit. The lyrics reclaim the power in her identity as a black woman from the deep south and have her bragging about her wealth and refusing to forget her roots. In a society that still judges women for boasting about their success, Beyonce owns it, and makes a point of asserting her power, including over men. You might just be a black Bill Gates in the making, she muses, but then decides, actually: I might just be a black Bill Gates in the making. RO
6/40 Laura Marling Ghosts
Lover, please do not / Fall to your knees / Its not Like I believe in / Everlasting love.
Haunted folkie Marling was 16 when she wrote her break-out ballad a divination of teenage heartache with a streak of flinty maturity that punches the listener in the gut. Its one of the most coruscating anti-love songs of recent history and a reminder that, Mumford and Sons notwithstanding the mid 2000s nu-folk scene wasnt quite the hellish fandango posterity has deemed it. EP
7/40 LCD Soundsystem “Losing My Edge”
Im losing my edge / To all the kids in Tokyo and Berlin / I’m losing my edge to the art-school Brooklynites in little jackets and borrowed nostalgia for the unremembered Eighties.
One of the best songs ever written about ageing and being forced to make peace with the person you are becoming. Long before the concept of the hipster had gone mainstream, the 30-something James Murphy was lamenting the cool kids with their beards and their trucker hats snapping at his heels.
Coming out of his experiences as a too-cool-for school DJ in New York, the song functions perfectly well as a satire of Nathan Barley-type trendies. But, as Murphy desperately reels off all his cutting-edge influences, its the seam of genuine pain running through the lyrics that give it its universality. EP
8/40 Leonard Cohen “So Long, Marianne”
Well you know that I love to live with you/ but you make me forget so very much / I forget to pray for the angels / and then the angels forget to pray for us.
You could fill an entire ledger with unforgettable Cohen lyrics couplets that cut you in half like a samurai blade so that you dont even notice whats happened until you suddenly slide into pieces.
So Long, Marianne was devoted to his lover, Marianne Jensen, whom he met on the Greek Island of Hydra in 1960. As the lyrics attest, they ultimately passed like ships in a long, sad night.
She died three months before Cohen, in July 2016. Shortly beforehand he wrote to her his final farewell a coda to the ballad that had come to define her in the wider world. Know that I am so close behind you that if you stretch out your hand, I think you can reach mine… Goodbye old friend. Endless love, see you down the road. EP
9/40 The Libertines “Can’t Stand Me Now”
“An end fitting for the start / you twist and tore our love apart.”
The great pop bromance of our times came crashing down shortly after Carl Barât and Pete Doherty slung their arms around each others shoulders and delivered this incredible platonic love song. Has a break-up dirge ever stung so bitterly as when the Libertines duo counted the ways in which each had betrayed the other?
Shortly afterwards, Dohertys spiralling chemical habit would see him booted out of the group and he would become a national mascot for druggy excess a sort of Danny Dyer with track-marks along his arm. But he and Barât and the rest of us would always have Cant Stand Me Now, a laundry list of petty betrayals that gets you right in the chest. EP
10/40 Kate Bush “Cloudbusting”
“You’re like my yo-yo/ That glowed in the dark/ What made it special/ Made it dangerous/ So I bury it/ And forget.”
Few artists use surrealism as successfully as Kate Bush or draw inspiration from such unusual places. So you have Cloudbusting, about the relationship between psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich and his son, Peter, the latter of whom Bush inhabits with disarming tenderness. The way Peters father is compared to such a vivid childhood memory is a perfect, haunting testimony to the ways we are affected by loss as adults. RO
11/40 Nick Cave “Into my Arms”
I don’t believe in an interventionist God / But I know, darling, that you do / But if I did I would kneel down and ask Him / Not to intervene when it came to you.”
True, the lyrics spew and coo and, written down, resemble something Robbie Williams might croon on his way back from the tattoo parlour (And I don’t believe in the existence of angels /But looking at you I wonder if that’s true).
Yet they are delivered with a straight-from-the-pulpit ferocity from Cave as he lays out his feelings for a significant other (opinions are divided whether it is directed to the mother of his eldest son Luke, Viviane Carneiro, or to PJ Harvey, with whom he was briefly involved). Hes gushing all right, but like lava from a volcano, about to burn all before it. EP
12/40 Sisters of Mercy “This Corrosion”
On days like this/ In times like these/I feel an animal deep inside/ Heel to haunch on bended knees.
Andrew Eldritch is the great forgotten lyricist of his generation. Dominion/Mother Russia was a rumination on the apocalypse and also a critique of efforts to meaningfully engage with the Soviet Union at the height of the Cold War.
Ever better, and from the same Floodlands album was This Corrosion a track more epic than watching all three Lord the Rings movies from the top of Mount Everest. Amid the choirs and the primordial guitars, what gives the nine-minute belter its real power are the lyrics which may (or may not) allude to the not-at-all amicable departure from the Sisters of Wayne Hussey and Craig Adams.
Either way, Eldritch paints forceful pictures in the listeners head, especially during the stream of consciousness outro, unspooling like an excerpt from HP Lovecrafts The Necronomicon or the Book of Revelations: The Musical. EP
13/40 Sultans of Ping FC “Where’s Me Jumper?”
It’s alright to say things can only get better/ You haven’t lost your brand new sweater/ Pure new wool, and perfect stitches/ Not the type of jumper that makes you itches.
Received as a novelty ditty on its debut in pauses to feel old January 1992, the Sultans lament for a missing item of woollen-wear has, with time, been revealed as something deeper. Its obviously playful and parodying of angst-filled indie lyrics (of which there was no shortage in the shoe-gazy early Nineties). But theres a howl of pain woven deep into the songs fabric, so that the larking is underpinned with a lingering unease. EP
14/40 The Smiths “There is a Light that Never Goes Out”
Take me out tonight/Take me anywhere, I don’t care/I don’t care, I don’t care.
As with Leonard Cohen, you could spend the rest of your days debating the greatest Morrissey lyrics. But surely there has never been a more perfect collection of couplets than that contained in their 1982 opus. Its hysterically witty, with the narrator painting death by ten-ton truck as the last word in romantic demises. But the trademark Moz sardonic wit is elsewhere eclipsed by a blinding light of spiritual torment, resulting in a song that functions both as cosmic joke and howl into the abyss. EP
15/40 Bruce Springsteen “I’m on Fire”
At night I wake up with the sheets soaking wet/ And a freight train running through the/ Middle of my head /Only you can cool my desire.
Written down, Springsteen lyrics can stops to ensure reinforced steel helmet is strapped on read like a fever-dream Bud Light commercial. Its the delivery, husky, hokey, all-believing that brings them to life.
And he has never written more perfectly couched verse than this tone-poem about forbidden desire from 1984s Born in the USA. Springsteen was at that time engaged to actress/model Julianne Phillips though he had already experienced a connection to his future wife Patti Scialfa, recently joined the E-Street Band as a backing singer. Thus the portents of the song do not require deep scrutiny, as lust and yearning are blended into one of the most combustible cocktails in mainstream rock. EP
16/40 Tori Amos “Father Lucifer”
He says he reckons I’m a watercolour stain/ He says I run and then I run from him and then I run/ He didn’t see me watching from the aeroplane/ He wiped a tear and then he threw away our apple seed.
The daughter of a strict baptist preacher, Amos constantly wrote about her daddy issues. Father Lucifer was further inspired by visions she had received whilst taking peyote with a South American shaman.
The result was a feverish delving into familial angst, framed by a prism of nightmarish hallucination. Its about love, death, God and the dark things in our life we darent confront the rush of words delivered with riveting understatement. EP
17/40 Public Enemy “Black Steel in the Hour of Chaos”
I got a letter from the government/ The other day/I opened and read it/It said they were suckers/ They wanted me for their army or whatever/ Picture me given’ a damn, I said never.
Decades before Black Lives Matter, Chuck D and Public Enemy were articulating the under siege reality of daily existence for millions of African-Americans. Black Steel, later covered by trip-hopper Tricky, is a pummelling refusal to be co-opted into Americans Land of the Free mythology a message arguably as pertinent today as when it kicked down the doors 30 years ago. EP
18/40 Kendrick Lamar ” Swimming Pool (Drank)”
First you get a swimming pool full of liquor, then you dive in it/ Pool full of liquor, then you dive in it/ I wave a few bottles, then I watch ’em all flock.
Lamar is widely acknowledged as one of contemporary hip-hops greatest lyricists. He was never more searing than on this early confessional a rumination on his poverty-wracked childhood and the addictions that ripped like wildfire through his extended family in Compton and Chicago. There is also an early warning about the destructive temptations of fame as the young Kendrick is invited to join hip hops tradition of riotous excess and lose himself in an acid bath of liquor and oblivion. EP
19/40 Prince “Sign O’ the Times”
A skinny man died of a big disease with a little name/ By chance his girlfriend came across a needle and soon she did the same.
Princes lyrics had always felt like an extension of his dreamily pervy persona and, even as the African-American community bore the brunt of Reagan-era reactionary politics, Prince was living in his own world. He crashed back to earth with his 1987 masterpiece and its title track, a stunning meditation on gang violence, Aids, political instability and natural disaster. EP
20/40 Rolling Stones “Gimme Shelter”
“War, children, it’s just a shot away/ It’s just a shot away.”
Nobody captured the violent tumult of the end of the Sixties better than Mick, Keith and co. Their one masterpiece to rule them all was, of course, Gimme Shelter. Today, the credit for its uncanny power largely goes to Merry Claytons gale-force backing vocals.
But the Satanic majesty also flows from the lyrics which spoke to the pandemonium of the era and the sense that civilisation could come crashing in at any moment. EP
21/40 David Bowie “Station to Station”
Once there were mountains on mountains/ And once there were sun birds to soar with/ And once I could never be down/Got to keep searching and searching.
Which Bowie lyrics to single out? The gordian mystery of Bewlay Brothers? The meta horror movie of Ashes to Ashes? The uncanny last will and testament that was the entirety of Blackstar a ticking clock of a record that shape-shifted into something else entirely when Bowie passed away three days after its release?
You could stay up all night arguing so lets just pick on one of the greats the trans-Continental odyssey comprising the title track to Station to Station. Recorded, goes the myth, in the darkest days of Bowies LA drug phase, the track is a magisterial eulogy for the Europe he had abandoned and which he would soon return to for his Berlin period.
All of that and Bowie makes the line its not the side effects of the cocaine feel like a proclamation of ancient wisdom. EP
22/40 Oasis “Supersonic”
She done it with a doctor on a helicopter/ She’s sniffin in her tissue/ Sellin’ the Big Issue.
There is shameless revisionism and then there is claiming that Noel Gallagher is a great lyricist. And yet, its the sheer, triumphant dunder-headedness of Oasis biggest hits that makes them so enjoyable.
Rhyming Elsa with Alka Seltzer, as Noel does on this Morning Glory smash, is a gesture of towering vapidity but theres a genius in its lack of sophistication. Blur waxing clever, winking at Martin Amis etc, could never hold a candle to Oasis being gleefully boneheaded. EP
23/40 Underworld “Born Slippy”
You had chemicals boy/ I’ve grown so close to you/ Boy and you just groan boy.
The ironic lager, lager, lager chant somehow became one the most bittersweet moments in Nineties pop. Underworld never wanted to be stars and actively campaigned against the release of their contribution to the Trainspotting score as a single. Yet there is no denying the glorious ache of this bittersweet groover or the punch of Karl Hydes sad raver stream-of-consciousness wordplay. Its that rare dance track which reveals hidden depths when you sit down with the lyrics. EP
24/40 Fleetwood Mac “Landslide”
“And I saw my reflection in the snow-covered hills/ Till the landslide brought me down”
Stevie Nicks was only 27 when she wrote one of the most poignant and astute meditations on how people change with time, and the fear of having to give up everything youve worked for. RO
25/40 Paul Simon “Graceland”
She comes back to tell me she’s gone/ As if I didn’t know that/ As if I didn’t know my own bed.
With contributions from Ladysmith Black Mambazo and the Boyoyo Boys, Simons 1986 masterpiece album is regarded nowadays as a landmark interweaving of world music and pop. But it was also a break-up record mourning the end of his marriage of 11 months to Carrie Fisher. The pain of the separation is laid out nakedly on the title track, where he unflinchingly chronicles the dissolution of the relationship. EP
26/40 Lou Reed “Walk on the Wild Side”
“Candy came from out on the island/ In the backroom she was everybody’s darling/ But she never lost her head/ Even when she was giving head/ She says, hey baby, take a walk on the wild side.”
Reeds most famous song paid tribute to all the colourful characters he knew in New York City. Released three years after the Stonewall Riots, Walk on the Wild Side embraced and celebrated the other in simple, affectionate terms. The Seventies represented a huge shift in visibility for LGBT+ people, and with this track, Reed asserted himself as a proud ally. RO
27/40 Sharon Van Etten “Every Time the Sun Comes Up”
People say I’m a one-hit wonder/ But what happens when I have two?/ I washed your dishes, but I shit in your bathroom.
The breakdown of a 10 year relationship informed some of the hardest hitting songs on the New Jersey songwriters fourth album. Are We There. She takes no prisoner on the closing track a tale of domesticity rent asunder that lands its punches precisely because of Van Ettens eye for a mundane, even grubby, detail. EP
28/40 Patti Smith Gloria
Jesus died for somebody’s sins but not mine/ Meltin in a pot of thieves/ Wild card up my sleeve/ Thick heart of stone/ My sins my own/ They belong to me
The song that launched a thousand punk bands. It takes three minutes to get to Van Morrisons chorus on Patti Smiths overhaul of Gloria, where she lusts after a girl she spots through the window at a party. Before that, there is poetry. She snarls and shrieks as though her vocal chords might rip. The ostentatiousness of the lyrics owes as much to poets Arthur Rimbaud and Baudelaire as it does to Jim Morrison. RO
29/40 The Eagles “Hotel California”
There she stood in the doorway/ I heard the mission bell/ And I was thinking to myself/ This could be Heaven or this could be Hell.
A cry of existential despair from the great soft-rock goliath of the Seventies. By the tail-end of the decade the Eagles were thoroughly fed up of one another and jaundiced by fame. The titular and fictional Hotel California is a metaphor for life in a successful rock band: You can check-out any time you like / But you can never leave. The hallucinatory imagery was meanwhile inspired by a late night drive through LA, the streets empty, an eerie hush holding sway. EP
30/40 Thin Lizzy “The Boys are Back in Town”
Guess who just got back today/ Them wild-eyed boys that had been away/ Haven’t changed that much to say/But man, I still think them cats are crazy.
A strut of swaggering confidence captured in musical form and a celebration of going back to your roots and reconnecting with the people who matter. Thin Lizzys biggest hit was in part inspired by Phil Lynotts childhood memories of a Manchester criminal gang. The gang members were constantly in and out of prison and the song imagines one of their reunions even name-checking their favourite hangout of Dinos Bar and Grill where the drink will flow and the blood will spill. EP
31/40 Nina Simone “Four Women”
“Ill kill the first mother I see/ My life has been too rough/ Im awfully bitter these days/ Because my parents were slaves.”
Included on her 1966 album Wild is the Wind, Simone depicts four characters Aunt Sarah, Saffronia, Sweet Thing and Peaches who represent different parts of the lasting legacy of slavery. Some critics accused her of racial stereotyping, but for Simone, it was these womens freedom to define themselves that gave them their power. RO
32/40 St Vincent “Digital Witness”
Digital witnesses/ whats the point of even sleeping?/ If I cant show it, if you cant see me/ Whats the point of doing anything?
One of the best songs written about the illusory intimacy fostered the internet. St Vincent aka Texas songwriter Annie Clark was singing about how social media fed our narcissism and gave us a fake sense of our place in the world. EP
33/40 Frank Ocean “Pink + White”
“Up for air from the swimming pool/ You kneel down to the dry land/ Kiss the Earth that birthed you Gave you tools just to stay alive/ And make it up when the sun is ruined.”
Co-written with Pharrell and Tyler, the Creator, Pink + White stands out even on an album like Frank Oceans Blonde. He sings with a gently swaying, almost resigned delivery surrealist lyrics that likens a past relationship to a brief high, from the perspective of the comedown that follows. RO
34/40 Rufus Wainwright “Dinner at Eight”
If I want to see the tears in your eyes/ Then I know it had to be/ Long ago, actually in the drifting white snow/You loved me.
Piano-man Wainwright can be too ornate for his own good. But how he lands his blows here in this soul-baring recounting of a violent disagreement with his father. Loudon III, a cult folkie in his own right walked out on the family when Rufus was a child and the simmering resentments had lingered on.
They boiled over at a joint Rolling Stone photoshoot during which Rufus had joked that his dad needed him to get into Rolling Stone and his father had not taken the insult lying down. The dispute is here restaged by Wainwright the younger as a raging row at the dinner table. EP
35/40 Bob Dylan “It’s Alright, Ma (I’m Only Bleeding)”
“Pointed threats, they bluff with scorn/ Suicide remarks are torn/ From the fool’s gold mouthpiece/ The hollow horn plays wasted words/ Proves to warn that he not busy being born/ Is busy dying.”
Its Alright Ma is a cornerstone in Dylans career that marks his shift from scrutinising politics to sardonically exposing all the hypocrisy in Western culture. He references the Book of Ecclesiastes but also Elvis Presley, and offers up the grim perspective of a man whose views do not fit in with the world around him. RO
36/40 ABBA “The Winner Takes it All”
I don’t wanna talk/ About the things we’ve gone through/ Though it’s hurting me/ Now it’s history.
The first and last word in break-up ballads. The consensus is that it was written by Björn Ulvaeus about his divorce from band-mate Agnetha Fältskog, though he has always denied this, saying is the experience of a divorce, but it’s fiction. Whether or not he protests too much the impact is searing as Fältskog wrenchingly chronicles a separation from the perspective of the other party. EP
37/40 Nas “The World is Yours”
“I’m the mild, money-getting style, rolling foul/ The versatile, honey-sticking wild golden child/ Dwelling in the Rotten Apple, you get tackled/ Or caught by the devil’s lasso, s*** is a hassle”
Nas addresses both himself and his future progeny on one of the best tracks from his faultless debut Illmatic. Inspired by the scene from Scarface in which Tony Montana sees a blimp with the message The World is Yours during a visit to the movie theatre, it feeds back to the rappers own belief that certain signs will appear to convince you that youre on the right track. RO
38/40 The Stone Roses “I Wanna Be Adored”
I dont have to sell my soul/ Hes already in me/ I dont need to sell my soul/ Hes already in me.
A statement of intent, a zen riddle, a perfect accompaniment to one of the greatest riffs in indie-dom – the opening track of the Stone Rosess 1989 debut album was all of this and much more.
The lyrics are supremely economical just the chorus repeated over and over, really. But these are nonetheless amongst the most hypnotic lines in pop. Adding poignancy is the rumour that the Roses wrote it as an apology to early fans reportedly aghast that the group had signed a big fat record deal. EP
39/40 The Beatles “When I’m Sixty Four”
“When I get older losing my hair/ Many years from now/ Will you still be sending me a Valentine/ Birthday greetings bottle of wine?”
There are hundreds of great songs about epic, romantic love, and there are hundreds of other Beatles songs that could have made this list. But this track from Sgt. Peppers Lonely Hearts Club Band written by a 16-year-old Paul McCartney is one of the greats for how it encapsulates a kind of love that is less appreciated in musical form. Its less Id take a bullet for you and more put the kettle on, love. Its adorable, full of whimsy, and just the right amount of silly. RO
40/40 Beck “Loser”
In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey / Butane in my veins so I’m out to cut the junkie.
Man Im the worst rapper in the world Im a loser, Beck is reported to have said upon listening back to an early demo of his break-out hit (before it had acquired its iconic chorus) . This gave him an idea for the hook and he never looked back. The stream of consciousness lyrics cast a spell even though they dont make much sense ironic as Beck was setting out the emulate the hyper-literate Chuck D. EP
Emotion, the 2015 album that came three years after Call Me Maybe, was a turning point not just for Jepsen but for pop music as a whole. Released to critical acclaim, it sold a fraction of its 2012 predecessor Kiss, but ushered in a new era: the rise of the cult popstar. The influence of the genres top 1 per cent was shrinking, and left-field artists with a smaller but fiercer fanbase Charli XCX, Troye Sivan, Christine and the Queens, Lorde, Kim Petras, Halsey began to rule. Five years on, thats still how things are. 
I think everyone is starting to realise that the radio we were being fed all the time wasnt what everyone wanted to listen to, she says when I put this to her. With Spotify, it doesnt need to be drilled into somebody, This is a good song. Is it though? Or are we just singing it because we havent heard anything else? I think there was a period of time where I didnt like anything that I was hearing on the radio, and so I wasnt sure that I wanted to belong to that team anymore.
She tried, half-heartedly. Driven by a competitive streak, she began writing the kind of music being played on the radio. Everyone would be stoked on it, she says, and Id be like, I hate it. Like, it actually makes my stomach turn. I walked that road for long enough to be like, Turn around, run in the other direction darling!
A conversation with her stepfather helped, too. He said to me, What is the point of this if youre just miserable? Was she miserable? I wasnt, but I was tired. When her stepdad asked what she actually expected of herself and her career, she came to a firm conclusion. Im not gonna sell out at the one thing that you cant sell out at, which is the music, she says. Like, do a shampoo, whatever, but the music has to have integrity for me to sleep at night. Thered be nothing worse than putting out what you thought people would love and then to have them hate it. And you hated it too. No one won here! I have to like it, and if they do too, wonderful, and if they dont, well, nobody gets my weird self and thats fine.
People do get it. Jepsen makes the kind of music youd give an aspiring pop artist to study and dissect. Kiss, Emotion, its 2019 follow-up Dedicated, not to mention a handful of perfect EPs, all offered up heady earworms, with lyrics so simple that they would be funny if they werent so devastating. Tried to let it go and say Im over you. Im not over you, but Im trying, she sings on Party For One. Ive been denying how I feel, youve been denying what you want, she sings on Cut To The Feeling, a B-side track that builds to such rapturous heights, Jepsen has to grasp for the top notes. And, of course, I need to tell you something. I really, really, really, really, really, really like you. And I want you. Do you want me? Do you want me too? 
A love of musical theatre inspired Jepsens earnest side. Growing up, she and her family would sing along to Joseph and the Amazing Technicolour Dreamcoat on 18-hour drives from their Canadian hometown of Mission, British Columbia, to California. At school, she played Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz, little orphan Annie in Annie, and Sandy in Grease. I didnt necessarily know exactly where I belonged, but on stage felt like the one place where I had confidence, she says. I got to transform into this empowered version of myself.
Being in this industry, shes had to channel that version of herself often. By her own admission she is a people-pleaser, and its led her to carefully colour around saying no to things. Shes had to overcome that. Its OK to just be like, I dont think thats me, Im sorry. No one should have more authority over you and your vision and your artistry than your own damn self. I want to have the steering wheel, versus some 50-year-old guy and a group of old people telling me what Im supposed to wear.
She makes her own decisions now, not least when it comes to how she presents herself. She picks out her own clothes, and if she doesnt want her face to feature on the artwork, then it doesnt. On the cover of Dedicated, she has her bare back to the camera. The world of pop, she says, is becoming less obsessed with looks. Theres not this concept of beauty being one thing anymore, she says. It was drilled into all of us, with Cosmopolitan, like, This is what youre supposed to look like.
Living in LA doesnt exactly help in that regard. The other day, she went to the dentist, and he suggested she get veneers. And Im like, Who the f*** are you?! I didnt come here for this! Just dental floss me! He was like, I have veneers, could you even tell? And you know that scene in Friends when Ross does the whitening and its so extremely bad I didnt wanna be like, Yeah, it was the first f***ing thing I noticed about you!  
Carly Rae Jepsen: I dont want some 50-year-old guy telling me what Im supposed to wear (Alex Perkins)
Another time, she went to get her eyebrows done. And the womans like, You ever thought maybe you could narrow your She points to her nose. This place is just crazy. And you cant buy into it. You cant. At least, I cant. Or I would lose myself, and I have no intention of doing that if I can hold on. 
Los Angeles can be an ageist town, too. The music industry equally so. Lily Allen, whos six months older than Jepsen, said last year that she wasnt played on the radio anymore because Im female and 33. Does Jepsen have the same concerns? I personally have been happier every year that Im getting older, she says. I dont stand by the idea that theres an age limit to being a female pop artist. The idea that theres a stopping point to this career is a false one, and if I can do anything, then Im gonna try and prove that. 
Theres certainly no stopping point in sight. Jepsens just released her new single, the playful, sarcastic kiss-off Lets Be Friends, and shes in the middle of a tour. Onstage, I cant explain it, but its the most happy I am, she says. I used to think all these people are looking, and theyre wondering how Ill do, and whether Ill slip or miss a note or how my hair is, and I realised its about them. Im here to just be the conductor of some good energy.
Unsurprisingly, shes exhausted at the end of every show. Theres always a moment afterwards where I have to take 10 to just cocoon and come back down. Shes used that word cocoon several times during the course of our conversation. Does she consider herself an introvert? She thinks for a moment. I would like to say a different answer. I can be social, but I only enjoy it in small doses. I slowly come out of my cocoon in little ways here and there, but its still an exposing feeling. Sometimes I do need that time alone, because on the road youre in constant company all the time. Theres a point where you just need to shut off.
When were done, she plans to do just that. Im gonna go home, have a hot shower, little glass of sauvignon blanc. She sighs happily. Peace baby. 
Carly Rae Jepsen plays Brixton Academy on Saturday 8 February